What do you think you're going to do?
What do you expect?
I hear these questions repeatedly lately, and then I hear:
Don't expect anything.
Erase all your expectations.
Don't ruin the experience with the expectations you've set.
So I think about it.
And I have concluded:
You can expect things. Just be honest with yourself, and know what your own expectations are. Don't tell yourself that you don't expect anything, because that is rarely the case. And I still have to plan.
Oh, don't worry, I'm only expecting...
See? Just fill in the blank. It's always something. Maybe you think it's meaningless. But you'd finish that sentence somehow. I know you'd find a way.